I live in my own world a lot of the time in Japan. It’s
incredibly easy to both be part of this country, and also separate yourself
entirely, which I actually appreciate wholeheartedly. I am nearing the end of
January, reaching just barely past the six month mark of my stay in Japan so
far. In March, the third year students will graduate and move on to high
school. It’s something I’ve thought about on different occasions, but only from
my perspective without really considering how everyone else feels. You see,
Japan can feel a little emotionless sometimes. Or rather, that’s what I’ve
heard. And now that I write it, I feel like it really is only that – what I’ve
heard. Because what I’ve actually found is that most people really are
expressive. When they’re tired, they’ll let you know. When they’re excited,
they’ll throw their arms up and cheer. And when they’re both a combination of
happy and sad, they’ll cry…or at least share a little wisdom as to how we can embody both the highs and lows in a single tear.
My desk sits directly across from the teacher in charge of
the third-year-students. He is essentially the head of the department for these
soon-to-be-graduates. He worked with these students for the past three years,
seeing them come to Hiraka Junior High right out of elementary school, and
watching them grow and flourish and now, strive to go to high school. And even
though I’ve only been here for six months, it really is a magical
transformation. In America (or at least where I’m from), you don’t have to do a
whole lot to get into high school. In fact, I think you can fill out a couple
forms and be on your way. It’s expected, and generally most junior highs have
feeder schools that send everyone to the same school. But in Japan, it’s
different. If anything, it can be compared to America’s college admissions. The
students take rigorous tests, much like the SATs, they are scouted for sports,
sometimes they have to do interviews, and overall, the stress and pressure is
felt by everyone. Everyone wants to get into the best high school.
Today, a man wheeled in at least 50 potted flowers of all
varieties. They were beautiful. In fact, when our paths crossed in the hallway,
his hands grasping the cart, I said “kirei!” beautiful! He gave me a weary smile in response, hands still clutching his cart, slowly creeping past me. I let him pass and moseyed
back to my desk. Sometimes things happen at my schools and I just…let them. Random
things, like 50 plants showing up in the teacher’s room all of a sudden, or old
ladies with clipboards circling the hallways. I don’t ask because I assume I
won’t understand. But today I went for it. I asked the teacher across from me
what all those flowers were doing here. It couldn’t hurt, could it? He reminded
me that the graduation ceremony is coming up in only about a month and a half,
which will lead to entrance ceremonies for new students and farewell ceremonies
for teachers being transferred to new schools, as well as the inevitable
beginning of spring. Where we live, it snows like mad. It can reach astonishing
heights in a day. We’re almost done with the first month, but we still have
about two more. Spring? It sounds so far away. But he went on. “That man brings
the flowers every year so we can choose what we want to display around school.” The man I crossed
paths with. The man with the half smile. “When I see him each year, I get a
feeling,” he said with slightly broken English and a smile. “I know spring is coming,” he said. “Time…moves very fast.”
And I knew exactly what he meant.
Seeing that man in the hall was like a representation
of time in its living form, wheeling flowers around and wielding half smiles.
Perhaps the flower man’s response to me was perfect, then.
“Beautiful!” I’d
said, to which he only gave me tired, upturned lip. The changing seasons, the
continuation of life, it really is beautiful. But at times, well, a half smile
is the best we can do. And maybe both of those things are exactly how it should
be.
And maybe that’s ok.
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